Taking stock as a writer – with some help from my Nemesis

Writing, for all of us scribblers, is a necessary pain in the arse. Thinking about writing, as opposed to doing it, is the big, weeping boil that sits on top of that pain in the arse, throbbing away until action is taken and the lancing begins. Thinking about why we write, and what we choose to write about, is…well, think of the most pain-filled analogy you can imagine and place it firmly on the top of that weeping boil…

Of late, my nemesis, that little bastard aka procrastination, has come to visit again, and has not been kind, cruelly and mischievously pushing me, unawares at first, through the gawd-awful door of reflective thinking. Once there, I am finding it nigh impossible to break away from analysing almost every thought and action, and not just my own.

Bewares, people, I is watching yiz!

Seriously though, it’s uncomfortable, painful even, and at times, probably akin to the navel-gazing that I generally abhor so much, but it is all helping me to finally ‘get it’. To understand stuff, personally, historically and socially; and to fully realise that through this reflective, and mostly silent, journey, I can finally accept where my personal, creative and social vision is rooted.

Taking stock of my own experience, from where I have come to where I am now, I am also forced to examine the why.  In realizing the why, I can make meaning of it all; the way I look at the world, my every action and reaction, and my sometimes frustratingly innate sense of responsibility that is relational, though built around a strictly selective connectedness that can be at once liberating, but also, an invisibly lethal thread of confinement and inertia.

In her book, The Heroine’s Journey, written from the view of a feminist in response to Joseph Campbell’s, The Hero with a Thousand Faces, Maureen Murdock wrote on the difficulties of our life path as women.

“It has no well-defined guideposts nor recognizable tour guides. There is no map, no navigational chart, no chronological age when the journey begins. It follows no straight lines”.

Yes, of course, this sentiment applies to men also, and is an appropriate description of the pathways towards transformation and self-realization for all of us. In response to Murdock’s book, Campbell said,

“Women don’t need to make the journey. In the whole mythological journey, the woman is there. All she has to do is realize that she’s the place that people are trying to get to.”


Whatever you believe, the truth is that very few of us come out into the world as adults, unscathed and perfectly intact, but by God, we learn from the experiential!

I cannot imagine a way of expressing my visions without understanding a life journey that so far has run the gamut of experiences and emotions that have offered me unimaginable joy. But there have also been the far from positive aspects. And in looking back, there is fear, there is disappointment, there is anger and there is regret, though I firmly believe that out of every dark place comes a glimmer of light.  The best we can hope for is that we, as scribblers, can look back on these sequences of our personal journeys and know intuitively that these learning processes have helped us to rise to the challenge of becoming critically reflective writers; authentic voices, and at the very least, empathic ones.

Sincerity and intention are not enough.  So thanks for that, I say begrudgingly, to my Nemesis.

Featured Quote from:  Neil GaimanThe Sandman, Vol. 6: Fables and Reflections 

Procrastination: Friend or foe…

The above image shows my companion of late, Procrastination. Or at least, if he were to manifest in some human form, this is what I think he would look like. A mischievous little bastard and thief of time, chuckling to his heart’s content at my dilemma.

I know I am not alone in my visits to Procrastination’s world, but I’ve lately begun to wonder if it is necessarily  a negative thing to become unfocused. To chop and change from one thing to another, and continually get distracted by stuff that ordinarily, I wouldn’t give a second thought or glance to. And all the while, avoiding the very thing I am supposed to be working on!

I compare it to my mind going on a fantastical journey to the world of nonsense; a maze with never-ending pathways that lead to other places with never-ending pathways!

But is that such a bad thing?

Maybe I need to be in the nonsense place for a while. Maybe I need to give my generally over-active brain a rest from focused thinking ( and from over there – on the dark side!) and let the mind escape to wander through the wilderness for a bit.  A holiday for my imagination, where my imagination is taken to a new realm of seemingly disjointed, random, bat-shit stupid thoughts and experiences.

Dorothy Parker once wrote, “Live, drink, be merry, love the reeling midnight through, for tomorrow ye may die, but alas we never do.” 

I like it! And it hasn’t all been time wasted, after all…I did get to procrastinate here on Procrastination.  So okay, you mischievous little bastard, you can stay…for a little while!